The American Gentleman's Guide to Politeness and Fashion or, Familiar Letters to his Nephews

"The American Gentleman's Guide to Politeness and Fashion" by Henry Lunettes is a how-to manual told through a series of letters from a man to his young male relatives, explaining how to be a respectable gentleman in the 1800s. It stresses looking good and acting right, teaching young men how important it is to conduct themselves well and dress the right way. The letters begin with a strong emphasis on clothing before expanding into discussions on morals, manners, and accomplishments, exploring how one's behavior and appearance reflect their inner character, all to help them succeed in society.