Our Deportment Or the Manners, Conduct and Dress of the Most Refined Society

"Our Deportment" by John H. Young is a manual from the 1800s that explains how people should act in sophisticated American social circles. It teaches the rules for acting correctly, speaking well, and understanding cultural customs. Designed for both men and women, the book aims to help people feel comfortable and assured in various social settings. It starts by stressing that knowing proper etiquette is important because it shows a person’s moral values and social class. Young says that being well-mannered helps individuals thrive and promotes peace in communities. The guidebook points out that it's important to be polite and thoughtful in all interactions. Readers will be able to learn about making introductions, using greetings, and behaving appropriately during social visits. The goal is to help readers develop the features of true ladies and gentlemen, so they can easily adapt to any social event.