Be Courteous, or, Religion, the True Refiner

"Be Courteous, or, Religion, the True Refiner" by M. H. Maxwell is a mid-19th century story focused on Emma Lindsay, a compassionate young woman whose interactions with her community, especially the struggling Graffam family, showcase themes of courtesy, compassion, and social complexity. Beginning with a rural setting where the isolated Graffam family lives, the story uses Emma's thoughtful actions and conversations to provide commentary on human conduct, particularly her engagement with the less fortunate, such as her concern for the Graffam's sick child. Set against the backdrop of social events, like a blueberry-picking party, the story highlights social attitudes towards newcomers and Emma's attempts to bridge social gaps and foster understanding through her polite demeanor, even as she deals with her own health issues and the challenges of integrating into refined society, ultimately showing her dedication to Christian values and the importance of being courteous in all relationships.