The Punishment of Children

"The Punishment of Children" by Felix Adler is a deep look into how to raise kids right, tackling the tough questions of discipline. He pushes for understanding and clear thinking when dealing with children, moving away from just punishing bad behavior. Adler stresses that parents have a duty to help their kids grow into good people, steering clear of being too strict or too soft. He lays out rules for parents to follow when disciplining, like not punishing when angry, and reminding them to focus on what the child did, not who they are, offering helpful advice instead of insults. The negative impacts of physical punishment are explored, showing how it can make kids bitter and scared to do what's right. He also questions how schools use rewards and punishments, favoring a caring approach that puts the child's feelings and moral growth first, making it essential for parents who want to bring up kids who are both well-behaved and good-hearted.