The Etiquette of To-day

"The Etiquette of To-day" by Edith B. Ordway is a manual from the past that explains how to behave properly in different social situations. It acts like a map for getting through social life without making mistakes, showing the customs that have grown over time. Ordway believes that understanding etiquette is key to being happy and getting along with others, making it important for everyone to learn. The book starts by comparing etiquette to a social game with its own rules, saying that those who follow them will be happier and more accepted. She believes the most important rule of modern etiquette is to treat others how you want to be treated. Personality and good character are important for good manners, with true etiquette coming from caring about others. This beginning gives an understanding of how important etiquette is, not just in friendly situations but also in business and personal relationships, getting readers ready for the more specific advice later in the book.