The Gentlemen's Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness Being a Complete Guide for a Gentleman's Conduct in All His Relations Towards Society

"The Gentlemen's Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness" by Cecil B. Hartley is a handbook from the 1800s that describes how gentlemen should act proper in social situations. The book explains the manners that are important for events like eating, talking, and acting in public. It argues that being polite and having good behavior is key to civilization. Early on, the book says etiquette is a must for people to get along because humans are social and like being with others. It says following social rules helps you fit in and be more accepted. The author makes it clear that politeness should come from being kind and thoughtful, not just following rules. Ultimately, behaving like a true gentleman means showing real compassion and acting appropriately around other people.