Don't Marry; or, Advice on How, When and Who to Marry

"Don't Marry; or, Advice on How, When and Who to Marry" by James W. Donovan is a 19th-century manual that examines marriage through a practical lens. The book warns against impulsive nuptials driven by fleeting attraction, emphasizing the need to look past outward appearances and material possessions for genuine compatibility. Donovan uses reasoned guidance to help understand the complexities of choosing a partner, cautioning readers to avoid the disappointments that come from basing marriage solely on romance. The book argues that thoughtful choices, grounded in shared values and mutual respect, are essential, and promises a roadmap for readers to navigate the complexities of courtship with wisdom and foresight.