Principles of politeness, and of knowing the world

"Principles of Politeness, and of Knowing the World" by Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield is a manual providing guidance on proper etiquette and social behavior during the 1700's. The author seeks to educate young men on how to confidently and agreeably interact within society, outlining the characteristics needed for favorable reception among different groups. Designed for self-improvement, this book also acts as a guide to help young people learn to be well-mannered. The book starts with looking into manners, accentuating the need for humility, proper behavior, and a gentleman's way of acting in social environments. The writer starts by discussing humility as an essential quality for acceptance, setting it apart from shyness and showing how valuable an assured attitude is when with company. He emphasizes that proper behavior goes beyond simply not being impolite, instead showing thoughtful respect, which creates a base for positive relationships. The author also gives advice about keeping appropriate behavior, showing the results of both proper and improper actions using examples.